Hooolllaaaa Guys – Its Hump Day yayyy! I hope you all are holding on b/c we’re almost there! Its pretty rainy & gray here but oh well, that’s fall for ya, but I digress…
So, if you are a Black person that lives in the U.S. odds are you’ve been to at least one beauty supply store in your life; I mean, that’s just the truth of the matter. Me being a Black woman, that likes to get her hair done frequently, particularly braids style, I’ve visited countless BSS in my lifetime. With that being said, Black people are at the very least 98% of all the BSS customers (I left the 2% to be very generous). However, it’s no secret that there really aren’t many BSS that are owned by Black people (sad, I know). Beauty supply stores are usually owned by Asians (Koreans) – that often times aren’t the most welcoming (as if they’re doing YOU – the paying customer a favor) then there are the teeny tiny encounters where they are in fact a bit welcoming – though, the latter is very far few & in between.
So, when I wanted to get my bob braids done earlier this month, I decided to do a search for a Black-Owned beauty supply stores near me (even though there is a BSS right up the street from my house), I found a couple but they were a bit further than I anticipated. However, not one to be easily deterred, I kept searching & stumbled on this gem in Baltimore MD – Beauty Plus Their website is not up & running just yet, but you can find all the info you need on their Facebook page, which I’ve already linked above. Though it took me about an hour & a half to get there (I was determined yall), I was so grateful to make it because… To be honest, I don’t think I can ever fully articulate the feeling I had walking into a BSS & seeing that a Black person actually OWNS it, like wow! It was my first time ever in an opened & running Black-Owned Beauty Supply Store!
Sorry for the grainy pic but it looked much clearer on my iPhone -__- & I wish I took way more pics but thats is all I have.
The customer service was great! The store was very neat & had everything I needed for my braids. It was super easy to find, especially for my geographically challenged self (judge me not). I spoke with Megan for bit & asked her how biz was doing, she replied that the support from the community has been overwhelming from day one; which of course, warmed my heart. Honestly, before Megan even made the statement about the community being so supportive, I was in the store for all of maybe 6 minutes (because ya girl was parked by a meter that I didn’t pay for, shhh) & while I was there at least two other customers came in & bought stuff! So, I definitely got a sense of what she meant by support from the community.
All in all, I was super impressed, but more so grateful – its hard to explain. I was so excited!! Definitely just became my go-to beauty supply store!
The great news is there are more & more Black-owned supply stores springing up in the country, thank God! Here are some links that have lists of Black-Owned beauty supply stores:
How is the Beauty Supply Store scene where you live? Have you ever been to a Black-Owned BSS? Do you plan to? As I was finishing up this post, I thought to myself: I wonder if this is the case outside of the US?
Hey Guys.. I know, I know, its been a looooooooooooooong while. I have no excuses, life’s just been super hectic (in a great way)! Trying to organize everything I have going on is um.. challenging! But I’m proving to myself everyday that it can be done, so here I am.
I’ve been attending quite a number of events – networking, conferences, expos, meetups
& the most recent event I attended was a natural hair event ‘Its A Curl Thing’ organized and held at McDaniel College; actual organizers were Kylah Chadwick and Khadijah Poston. It was a really great, very well put together event & it was executed accordingly. I am so proud to say I was apart of this awesome program and to think these young ladies are juniors in college & can still manage to pull something like this off is amazing! When I was in college I could barely remember what room # my classes were (judge me not), talk less of organizing an event of this magnitude.
I was there as a vendor and met such wonderful people, both the McDaniel students & non-students and even the staff. Seriously, everyone in attendance was so welcoming & passionate about natural hair.
I honestly don’t know how I made it through this week but thank Gawwwwd its over!
We’ve just turned our clocks back by an hour for daylight savings.. or is it daylight spending? Is there even such a thing? Whatever its called, we sha have turned our clock back an hour, which is pretty much is indicative of the cold season approaching or that it’s already here ( Sorry I’m ridiculously confused today). I digress.. So anyway I thought I’d share with you guys some really good tips to help your hair thrive in these coming months. Check out the list below.
*16. Wear satin lined hats to keep from stripping hair of moisture
Now I know I’m not alone when watching YouTube or reading on the world wide web (yes I know I could’ve just wrote www but I like world wide web better) and I come across words like TWA, LOC method, BAA, Co-wash all that good stuff. And I’m just like wahhh are they saying?! I’m talking just completely lost in the sauce because folks want to just create a whole new language & not inform the rest of us, tuh! Then we have no choice but to start googling every term (rolls eyes). But not to worry I’ve complied a mini natural hair vocab below.
So “hol’ on hol’ up let me break it down so it can be forever & consistently be BUH-ROKE!” (gotta watch Love Jones scene to understand that reference haha) Here’s the
Love Jones Linkfor that scene I just quoted, go to 6:18 mark pure awesomeness! Ahh how I love that movie!
Anywho here are some pix to match a couple of the naturals terms. The mini vocab is under the pix.
*None of these pictures are mine*
TWA = Teeny Weeny Afro
Gorgeous Lupita Nyong’o rocking twa
Jill Scott with her gorgeous low cut twa
Viola Davis with a twa
11. Natural Hairstyles Teeny Weeny Afro Twa On Pinterest Big Twa Afro Hairstyles – Proper Hairstyles
BAA = Big Ass Afro
Natural Hair Vocab
2nd day hair:Hair that looks good (at least decent) when you wake up the next morning and you don’t have to do much before walking out of the house.
3c/4a/4b/4c etc: A hair type classification system, for further clarification, see THIS LINK or THIS ONE
ACV (Apple Cider Vinegar): Washing/rinsing hair with ACV to cleanse, condition, and remove bacteria or restorer the hair’s natural PH.
APL: Refers to length- arm pit length.
Alopecia: Medical condition where you loss hair in bald spots (can google for more info)
BAA (Big A$$ afro): A large afro hairstyle; sometimes curly, round, or both.
Baggy: After you moisturize your hair at night, you put a shower cap over the entire head or on each plait overnight.
BC/ TBC aka (The) Big Chop – cutting off all your chemically treated hair
BNC (Braid-n-Curl): simply plait or braid the hair and roll the ends on rods or flexis. Similar to TNC (Twist-N-Curl)
Box braids: Plats or simple braids where the root is parted into small boxes and braided.
Braid out: Individual braids or cornrows left in then taken out for a crinkly pattern and stretching benefits Similar to the twist out.
BSL: Refers to length- bra strap length.
BSS: Beauty Supply Store
CG (curly girl): A method/book made by Lorraine Massey that many naturals follow.
Coily: The hair texture of many women of the African diaspora with natural hair. It is a hair texture resembling a spring or slinky, and is most often visible when hair is wet
Co-Wash: Using conditioner to wash the hair instead of shampoo
Cones: Are ‘silicones’, or ingredients found in hair care products that are not water soluble (i.e. you need shampoo to remove). Failure to wash out cones may lead to build-up, which may result in dry hair and breakage.
Cornrows: Hair that is braided against the head to make patterns
Creamy crack: Used to refer to perms (relaxers) to straighten hair every 6-8 weeks. It’s a nickname was given by those who found it hard to stop getting relaxers before they transitioned to natural hair
Denman: refers to a the Denman (a company) series of brushes; a brush that is used widely among the natural hair community to help define curls
DC or DT: Is a deep conditioner or treatment. A DC is when you leave a moisturizing (or protein based, depending on your needs) conditioner on your hair for an extended period of time, along with an optional heat source to aid in penetration.
Dusting: Dusting is trimming about a quarter inch off your ends. It’s less than a usual professional trim…it’s just enough to get the split ends off. It is so little hair, that it just looks like dust on the floor.
EO (Essential Oils): refers to a large group of naturally occurring oils (For example: lemon oil, peppermint oil, rosemary oil, lavender oil, etc.)
EVCO: Extra Virgin Coconut Oil (used in conditioning treatments)
EVOO: Extra Virgin Olive Oil (used in conditioning treatments)
HG: Holy Grail (Products that are tried and true)
HIH: Hand in Hair. It’s a disease that causes you to always be manipulating your tresses.
Kinky: Tightly Curled Hair
LOC Method: The Liquid Oil Cream Method or L.O.C method is a technique for moisturizing hair. It consist of hydrating the hair with water or a water-based product which is your liquid, sealing in the moisture with oil and then applying a cream product to close the hair cuticle which prevents moisture loss
Line of Demarcation: The point between the relaxed and natural hair where the hair is weakest and needs extra moisture and care.
Lye: A chemical straightening treatment commonly used to relax hair. Just as bad as No-lye relaxers and “kiddy perms”
MBL: Refers to length- mid back length.
Natural Hair: Free from Chemicals; the hair you were born with
No-poo: Washing method that does not involve the use of shampoo; co-washing is a type of no-poo method. Often done between washes to bring back the coily/ curly hair texture.
Pineapple-ing: a type of sleeping technique use to preserve/protect curls overnight so that they have great 2nd day hair. You gather all of your hair in a high, but loose pony tail at the top of your head and go to sleep on a satin pillowcase. In the morning you take it down and shake it out gently and all of your curls will have been preserved.
PJ(Product Junkie): A person who consistently purchases product after product to try on their hair. A shopping habit that is very common in the early stages of becoming natural, hoping to discover the product of all products.
Plopping: A quick dry method. You use a t-shirt or a curl friendly material (terry cloth or microfiber towel) to dry your hair instead of rubbing a towel on your hair to dry it. It drastically decreases drying times.
Pre-pooing: A treatment applied prior to shampooing. It usually consists of oils and/or conditioners applied the night before the shampoo or immediately prior, with a heat source to help penetrate. This is usually performed to help the hair maintain necessary moisture during the drying shampoo process.
Protective Styling: Styles that hide the ends and protects hair ends rubbing against clothing, rough texture material etc. Two strand twists, braids, etc are a few choice protective options.
Scab hair: The hard new growth that feels dry, brittle and fuzzy because the hair follicles are so damaged. Some believe this to be their hair’s texture, and it’s the reason many people stop transitioning. The good news is, most people stop growing scab hair 3-6 months after starting their transition.
Sealing: Sealing “locking in” moisture in the hair, specifically the ends. For sealing to be effective, you must first use a water-based moisturizer (a conditioner or cream that has water as its first ingredient), and then seal with a butter (usually shea) and oil(coconut, olive oil). The molecules in most butters/oils are too large to pass into the hair, so they stick to the outside of the shaft, trapping in the rich goodness of the moisturizer. Reversing those 2 steps will lead to dry hair.
Search and Destroy (S&Ds): Every so often hunt for spilit ends or knots and destroy on sight. Go to a salon or DIY with good hair scissors but ONLY USE THEM FOR HAIR TRIMS. Dull scissors will do more damage.
Shealoe: Shea butter and aloe blend
Slip: Used to describe how slippery a product is (usually a conditioner or detangler). The more slip it has, the more effectively it will coat the hair to aid in detangling.
SLS: Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (found in the harsher shampoos)
Sulfates: Detergent in most shampoo that can strip hair of natural oils.
TNC (Twist-n-Curl): Twist the hair all over and roll the ends with flexirods or rollers.
Transitioning: Going from relaxed to natural. This can be long or short period. Long Transition consists of letting natural hair grow out as you take care of relaxed ends. A short transition consists of cutting hair short to avoid having the 2 texture situation.
TWA(Teeny Weeny Afro): A small afro often worn after cutting off the remainder of a relaxer. Usually worn after doing the big chop.
Twist Out: Two strand twist the hair, allow to dry either by air drying or sitting under a dryer, take the twists apart, and style.
Wash and Go: After conditioning your hair, add a styler (gel, cream) and GO You leave the hair to air dry or dry with a diffuser. A simple and cute style. Make sure your ends are good.
The list continues to grow as new words are created and added so if you know some please feel free to write them below.